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Anal Sex Toy What They Are For and How to Use Them

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No matter what kind of sex you’re having, sex toys are here to enhance your pleasure. For anal sex toy play alone, there are dozens of varieties of sex toys and accessories! That’s where we come in. We’ll take you through all the fun things you can put in and around your backdoor.   Plugs Butt plugs are used for a variety of things and can be enjoyed by anyone of any gender. Most commonly, they’re used to provide a feeling of fullness or to stretch the anus safely. Plugs feature a tapered shape and — because the anus doesn’t have a natural stop sign like the vagina does with the cervix — should always have a flared base. They come in different materials, like medical-grade silicone, glass, and stainless steel, often with cool designs or charms on the end that remain outside the body.  “Stainless steel plugs can be a perfect way to incorporate temperature play into your booty exploration,” she says. Plugs also come in vibrating and nonvibrating options. If, f...

BDSM wear for BDSM game

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There are some wearable items that the sub can put on to please her Master. Or a Dom can wear something that exudes charisma and authority. They can be made from leather, lace or latex. There’s just something about seeing the Dom or the sub in fetish wear that makes the BDSM scene degrees hotter.   Collar A BDSM collar is a piece of kinky jewelry that the sub wears around her neck as a necklace or choker. It can be made from thick leather or PVC. They are tightly worn, and some even come with a lock. The Dom can order the sub to wear the collar as a symbol of “ownership” of the “dominance” of the Dom over the sub. In some BDSM play scenes, the sub cannot remove the collar unless the Dom gives permission. 2.        Mouth gag Mouth gags are worn to stop the sounds the sub is making when she’s getting it hard. With these on, your screams are turned into groans. Your moans are turned into whimpers. The saliva drips down on the mouth gag as the s...

How to clean your BDSM Equipment

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Be dirty yet safe. Once playtime's over, make sure you clean up your BDSM gear. Properly cleaning and storing your sex toys will save you and your partner from infections. Here's how you can clean your BDSM equipment based on their materials.   For non-electrical toys made from rubber, silicone, glass, vinyl, metal, and plastic: ·        Submerge the toy in warm water with a mild anti-bacterial soap. ·        Using your hand or a soft brush, gently scrub the surface. Don't forget to check the nooks and the crannies.  Note:  For silicone or jelly-rubber toys, be extra careful. Cleaning it too much may damage the toy or leave it with unwanted scratches and cracks. ·        Dry the toy through air or sunlight once it's all dried up. Put the toy in a clean/dust-free pouch before storing it away. For toys made with leather: ·        Wipe the ...

Bondage Sex Positions From Mild To Wild

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Leave your sub helpless. A hogtie harness will do the trick. This type of BDSM harness puts the person in a hogtie position– the person's arms are tied on their back, and their legs are bent back and tied close to their hands. With the sub locked up in this inescapable position, the dom can do whatever he desires. Impact play BDSM gears. Another BDSM form that most people are familiar with is impact play. Even if you prefer the vanilla lifestyle, you've probably tried some light spanking yourself. But with tools like the flogger, whip, and paddle, the sensations are amplified and more arousing since it creates a thin line between pleasure and pain. Here are some of the most famous impact play BDSM devices .   Paddle Made from leather or wood, paddles have flat surfaces that are commonly used to hit the sub's body. A Dom usually uses a paddle to discipline the sub when she refuses to follow the established rules. It can go from light to intense spanking, dependin...

Ball Gag Guide 7 Tips for Safely Using a Ball Gag

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When you think of BDSM equipment, people instantly think of whips, cuffs, eye masks, and ropes. If someone mentions ball gags, one might ask, “What is a ball gag?” or even dismiss it as a toy for advanced bondage plays due to its intimidating look. But don’t judge a book by its cover. BDSM Ball gags can bring more fun in the act than one might think. You can also use this for beginner or advanced play– find the correct variant suited for you. That’s why we’ve made this ball gag guide for you. By giving you enough information about underrated BDSM equipment  such as ball gags, you’ll be able to open yourself to new erotic possibilities (and wilder nights!) For this guide, we’ll discuss what a ball gag, why it’s excellent for BDSM, how to use it as well as other types of mouth gags for naughtier fun is! What is a Ball Gag and Why You Should Get One A ball gag is a sex toy mainly used for BDSM. It’s usually made with leather straps and a silicone ball. Just like collars and restraints...

8 BDSM Equipment List of Must-Have BDSM Devices for Kinksters

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Dominance and submission games in themselves are already exciting. But you know what makes it even more fun? When you incorporate different BDSM equipment and toys in your BDSM play scenes. Think of them as tools you can use to enhance your BDSM experience. There’s nothing like a flogger or a whip to get things heated up in the bedroom. But if you’re new to BDSM, choosing which   BDSM equipment   you want to use can be overwhelming. There’s just a wide variety of them. Newbies like you can quickly lose their way. To simplify things for you, ask yourself these questions, “What BDSM scene are you going to reenact?” and “Which BDSM toys can help make your play scenes more effective?” For example, if you’re in the mood for some naughty teacher and student role-play, the best toys you can get are a paddle and a whip. They’re great discipline tools that the Dom can use when the sub is acting like a bratty student. Or if a doctor and patient role-play are what you want to go for, the...

What does it mean to be a sub and dom?

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Dominance and Submission (D/S) A term for the behaviours or rituals that a submissive person follows in a  BDSM relationship . What does it mean to be dominant? To begin with, you and your partner must first decide who's going to play the dominant role and who's going to play the submissive. It's significant for both of you to interchange and plays both roles so you can both experience being in control of your shared sexual destiny. Quite simply, the dominant role will demonstrate skill and power and will control the submissive role. It's significant for both of you to play both roles. The dominant/submissive dynamic is often also referred to as top/bottom. In BDSM, the top is the dominant partner who dishes out the spanking, bondage, clamping and whipping, and the 'bottom' is the submissive partner. However, bottoms can also be the more dominant partner by demanding the top to perform certain acts of their choosing and even insist on switching roles. What does ...