Ball Gag Guide 7 Tips for Safely Using a Ball Gag
When you think of BDSM equipment, people instantly think of whips, cuffs, eye masks, and ropes. If someone mentions ball gags, one might ask, “What is a ball gag?” or even dismiss it as a toy for advanced bondage plays due to its intimidating look.
But don’t judge a book by its cover. BDSM Ball gags can bring more fun in the act than one might think. You can also use this for beginner or advanced play– find the correct variant suited for you.
That’s why we’ve made this ball gag guide for you. By giving you enough information about underrated BDSM equipment such as ball gags, you’ll be able to open yourself to new erotic possibilities (and wilder nights!)
For this guide, we’ll discuss what a ball gag, why it’s excellent for BDSM, how to use it as well as other types of mouth gags for naughtier fun is!
What is a Ball Gag and Why You Should Get One
A ball gag is a sex toy mainly used for BDSM. It’s usually made with leather straps and a silicone ball. Just like collars and restraints, this is only worn by the submissive. It makes them unable to speak during the act, making them more helpless and humiliated.
Now, why should you get your ball gag? If you’re a dom who wants to take complete control, you can make your sub wear this toy. Seeing them in a helpless state adds to the sexual appeal that a dom might find incredibly arousing. Submissive can also get mental and physical arousal while wearing a gag. If you’re a sub that likes to get their senses hindered, you should add this to your bondage collection.
How to Use a Ball Gag
Have you already been enticed by this frisky toy? Before getting one for yourself, make sure you know how to use it first. Here’s a simple guide that tackles how to use a ball gag before, during, and after a play session.
- Communicate
Before using sex toys such as a ball gag, discuss it with your partner first. If you’re a dominant, make sure you get proper consent with your sub. If they are in doubt, give them some time to research it. You can also experiment with scarfs first to provide them with an idea of what mouth gagging is all about. Once your sub agreed on using mouth gags, you also need to discuss the non-verbal signals since your partner cannot talk during the play.
- Use beginner-friendly ball gags first.
Once you and your partner agreed with the terms, start looking for beginner-friendly variants. Ball gags suited for beginners usually have a smaller and breathable ball (with holes in it) and adjustable straps. They don’t have locks, chains, nor weights in them.
- Place it correctly
Once you got your ball gag, you may start your play session. For a better experience, use your ball gag with other BDSM toys such as restrainers, paddles, whips, and eye masks.
To put it in, have the submissive hold the gag to their mouth as the dominant adjusts the straps behind the sub’s head. The sub must apply some pressure to force the call behind their teeth. Depending on the size, it may take some time to put the ball gag into the sub’s mouth securely.
For beginners, you may go for looser straps. Just make sure the ball gag won’t fall off during the play.
- Start asking teasing questions.
Once everything’s set, let’s the kinky fun begin. If you’re a dom, you can start asking questions, giving subtle spanks to your sub with their every helpless whimper. This will create a playful experience as you keep your partner gagged through the whole play.
- Always check non-verbal signals.
During the play, keep on checking your submissive partner. Make sure you remember the non-verbal signals that you’ve discussed earlier. For reference, you can incorporate these non-verbal signs:
- Grunting in rhythm and other noise patterns
- Patterned blinking
- Squeezing or pinching the dom’s hand
- Shaking your head and other head movements
- Holding an object such as keys
- Clean the ball gags after
Once you’re done with the play session, don’t reuse the ball gag for the 2nd round. You can either clean the BDSM ball gag first or use a new one.
- Speaking of cleaning, here’s how you can clean a ball gag.
For the leather straps of the ball gag, wipe it with a soft towel damped with warm water and mild soap.
As for the ball itself, if you can detach the silicone ball to its strap, you may clean it by submerging the gag to warm water and mild soap. Make sure it’s all dried up before putting it back to the strap.
If the gag is undetectable, wipe it with a soft towel damped with warm water and mild soap.
When storing it, put it on a clean velvet or satin pouch. Find a safe, discreet and dust-free spot.
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