Bondage Sex Positions From Mild To Wild

Leave your sub helpless. A hogtie harness will do the trick. This type of BDSM harness puts the person in a hogtie position– the person's arms are tied on their back, and their legs are bent back and tied close to their hands. With the sub locked up in this inescapable position, the dom can do whatever he desires.

Impact play BDSM gears.

Another BDSM form that most people are familiar with is impact play. Even if you prefer the vanilla lifestyle, you've probably tried some light spanking yourself. But with tools like the flogger, whip, and paddle, the sensations are amplified and more arousing since it creates a thin line between pleasure and pain. Here are some of the most famous impact play BDSM devices.

 

Paddle

Made from leather or wood, paddles have flat surfaces that are commonly used to hit the sub's body. A Dom usually uses a paddle to discipline the sub when she refuses to follow the established rules. It can go from light to intense spanking, depending on whatever threshold the sub can take. Just be careful to always check where you're hitting. Make sure you're hitting the safe zone areas. Safe zone areas are parts of the body where there's enough fat and muscle to cushion the impact, such as the thigh and butt cheeks. You can permanently damage the nerves and cause long-term injuries and even paralysis if you don't take the necessary precautions.

 

Whip

Whips are similar to paddles. But where paddles are flat and deliver soft to hard blows, whips are thin and sends quick and sure hits. It has a flexible end that lashes at the exposed skin. They're used to instil fear on the sub because aesthetically, whips are designed to look intimidating. A seasoned Dom knows that if you hit just the right away, the whip leaves a sting that can excite the nerves in the targeted area. Same as the paddle, always make sure you're only hitting spots that are covered in fat and muscles. They're excellent and easy-to-use BDSM equipment, but you still have to be careful when using them.

 

Flogger

For BDSM beginners, a tickler is a great toy to start with. It consists of a long thin handle with soft feathers on one end. This sex toy is perfect for people who find tickling arousing or for doms who want to punish their subs. You can also use this tool to give intense stings to your loved slave. It just depends on how you whip this bad boy out.

 

BDSM Canes

These naughty BDSM canes are not just for grandpas anymore. Doms now use this BDSM equipment to strike fear into the hearts of subs. It creates a "whooshing" sound as it cuts through the air to let any sub know that she must obey her Master. Or else, she'll meet the end of that cane. You can use them for the classroom school play. The Dom can take the role of a high school teacher, and the sub can be the naughty school kid. Show the sub who's in charge by whipping out the cane. Watch as she cowers in fear and her eyes light up in excitement.