8 BDSM Equipment List of Must-Have BDSM Devices for Kinksters

Dominance and submission games in themselves are already exciting. But you know what makes it even more fun? When you incorporate different BDSM equipment and toys in your BDSM play scenes. Think of them as tools you can use to enhance your BDSM experience. There’s nothing like a flogger or a whip to get things heated up in the bedroom.

But if you’re new to BDSM, choosing which BDSM equipment you want to use can be overwhelming. There’s just a wide variety of them. Newbies like you can quickly lose their way. To simplify things for you, ask yourself these questions, “What BDSM scene are you going to reenact?” and “Which BDSM toys can help make your play scenes more effective?”

For example, if you’re in the mood for some naughty teacher and student role-play, the best toys you can get are a paddle and a whip. They’re great discipline tools that the Dom can use when the sub is acting like a bratty student. Or if a doctor and patient role-play are what you want to go for, there’s the spreader bars and speculum to force the sub to spread her body in one way or another. This way, the Dom can do a “check-up” on the sub’s exposed body parts.

But of course, these are all just suggestions. You’re free to use any BDSM equipment you want, whatever way you want to use them. As long as you’re well aware of their proper use so that no one gets hurt, you’re good to go. With that said, let’s dig deeper into the world of BDSM and familiarize ourselves with the different BDSM equipment available.

BDSM Restraints

In a nutshell, BDSM restraints are the tools used to subdue the sub. They’re undoubtedly one of the most popular BDSM equipment out there, and for good reasons. What better way for a Dom to establish his dominance than to have the sub rendered immobile and under his sweet mercy. There are various BDSM restraints available in the market, but the most commonly used are the following.

1. Handcuffs

Handcuffs can be made from stainless steel, leather, or fabric. Other times they’re covered in a soft material such as cotton or faux fur to prevent the skin from chaffing. They may come with a chain that limits the movement of the sub, only allowing her to move as far as the chain allows. Tied or worn around the wrist, handcuffs put the sub in a compromising position and develop a feeling of helplessness and trepidation, which gives the Dom a sense of control. Remember that when wearing handcuffs, you always have to remember where you hide the key. Handcuffs can be hard to take off. Not to mention, awkward to explain to a locksmith.

2. Bondage Rope

And then there’s the bondage rope. They’re one of the most versatile BDSM restraint toys around. Whether you enjoy tying somebody up in bed or being put into a submissive position, you’re sure to find a way to make use of a bondage rope somehow. If you’re a beginner, a simple tying-up practice will do. But for BDSM practitioners who know what’s up, they can suspend someone up in the air just by applying intricate tying techniques known as Shibari, a borrowed skill from the Japanese.

3. Shackles

Usually paired with handcuffs, shackles are made from leather or steel that are used to restrain the legs. They’re worn round the ankles just like handcuffs and sometimes also come with a chain. They’re locked with a bolt or a padlock to restrain the wearer further. Getting anywhere with the combined weight of the shackles and the chain can be tough, so the wearer is dependent on the Dom. They’re often dubbed as one of the staples of any BDSM plays. Prolonged use of the shackles can sometimes cause damage to the sub’s skin, so the Dom is responsible for making sure the sub is alright. This BDSM equipment will help you get the most out of any role play just make sure you play it safe.

4. Bondage Tape

Bondage tapes are specialized tapes. One unique feature is that it doesn’t stick to anything other than itself, so you avoid hurting or irritating the skin or the hair when used. Make sure you’re getting good quality Bondage tape. You can use them as a substitute for a mouth gag, rope bondage, and even shackles. They also come in different colors, so that adds more flavor to your BDSM plays.

5. Arm Binders

Armbinders are one level above handcuffs and rope bondage when it comes to subduing the sub. It completely takes away what little wiggle room the wearer has. It’s worn around the arms and traps both limbs. The sub has no escape if the Dom chooses to tease her thorax. Don’t forget to use this BDSM equipment with consent from both sides. They take away the movement of the sub, so be sure that the sub is good with it.

6. Bondage Position Straps

Position straps are mainly used for additional support during sex. But some variants of these straps can be used for BDSM since some include handcuffs/ankle cuffs into it. Usually made with leather, this is a great sex toy if you’re looking for something kinky and practical at the same time.

7.Bed Restraint Sets

If you want to go all-in, a bed restraint set is a must. Your submissive will end up begging for your mercy as you take complete control. Consisting of handcuffs and ankle cuffs, escaping is impossible for your sub. Since most sets are adjustable, you can either loosen up the straps for your submissive’s comfort or tighten them up to punish your naughty sub. What’s alluring about having this set, too, is that it instantly gives a kinky vibe to your bedroom.

8. Hogtie Harness

Leave your sub helpless. A hogtie harness will do the trick. This type of BDSM harness puts the person in a hogtie position– the person’s arms are tied on their back, and their legs bent back and tied close to their hands. With the sub locked up in this inescapable position, the Dom can do whatever he desires.