What does it mean to be a sub and dom?
Dominance and Submission (D/S) A term for the behaviours or rituals that a submissive person follows in a BDSM relationship . What does it mean to be dominant? To begin with, you and your partner must first decide who's going to play the dominant role and who's going to play the submissive. It's significant for both of you to interchange and plays both roles so you can both experience being in control of your shared sexual destiny. Quite simply, the dominant role will demonstrate skill and power and will control the submissive role. It's significant for both of you to play both roles. The dominant/submissive dynamic is often also referred to as top/bottom. In BDSM, the top is the dominant partner who dishes out the spanking, bondage, clamping and whipping, and the 'bottom' is the submissive partner. However, bottoms can also be the more dominant partner by demanding the top to perform certain acts of their choosing and even insist on switching roles. What does ...